Married Young

Married young, back to being a teen trend Indonesia lately. A variety of factors which caused the lovers marry young. Either because it wanted to avoid sin, or are already kebablasan in sex related. Before marriage is easy to know the good thing and hurt to marry young.

Many young couples decide to marry with consideration of avoiding sin. The grounds were finally married, young became a phenomenon that hit the teens at this time. Although it was well done, but it is also its negative value.

some positive points,. marry young:

1.The age of the child not to be embedded with remote

When a pair of young lovers decide to marry, have children, then when they do not age will vary considerably with the age of the child. Such conditions can get you close to the child, so as not to shock generation

2.Age of productive longer

If both spouses are married young in early adulthood (20-40 years), meaning from the beginning stage of development the early adult developmental stages stepped up to become the new pasutri has a longer time. Development of the physiological and biological matter is still balanced, so that it can still be aligned and create more lasting relationships.

3.Learn together

Both couples are married at a young age is still the same in the process learned a lot of things. One of the most important is trying to learn a variety of ways to become a mother and father.

4.Be in line with the child

When becoming a parent at a young age tend to have children, can have thought its not too different, thus giving the advantage to the child. So the difference is not too far away to make their view is not very visible.

All of the above points, will be able to happen when both spouses equally mature. It means mental really needs to be prepared and considered as mature.

negative points were married young, among other things:

1.Age is not a factor in determining

Maturity is not determined by the age factor. Although the two couples decide to marry has entered early adulthood, but its development stage yet got to that stage. Then it happens is the incidence of different ways of thinking. Such as how to divide time between family and friendship.

When couples are unprecedented emotional immature stages of development, then she will strive to always be near his friends. Because he hasn't been willing to abandon this phase having fun. So, he can not fully committed to becoming a father or mother. It is not surprising that this will trigger a conflict, because when a person runs the role and duties will affect their relationship.

2.Divorce

When it is well known the existence of developmental stages of emotional immature, when that condition goes on then it is likely the two sides will give up. Divorce has become an attractive option.

Preparation of a mature

In addition to the factors of maturity, preparations were noteworthy. Does it mean to be ready and be considered mature about the steps to be taken. If only for the reason to avoid sin, it is the most superficial.

Because it is more than that, marriage is a sacred bond where two people who decide tied in a wedding is responsible for fostering mutually so that eventually created a harmonious family in accordance with expectations.

Family support

A marriage will not be realized without the support of the family. For that, you have to pocket the aegis family.

Because marriage is a bond of infinite time, so a parent support and family badly needed here so not going to happen in the middle of the road conditions for surrender.